Women..........We've Got To Love Ourselves More!!!!!!!!!!

I LOVE Iyanla Vanzant's perspective about heavy life topics! I appreciated the input that she gave Karrueche regarding her tumultuous relationship with Chris Brown. Karreuche represents a lot of women who ALLOW themselves to remain in TOXIC and UNHEALTHY relationships with the hopes of one day having a HEALTHY and COMMITTED relationship. It is human and easy for us to make EXCUSES for the poor treatment that we may receive from our significant others. It was powerful watching Iyanla help this young lady to tap into her OWN feelings and look through that mirror to get to the root of her wants, needs, and challenges within herself. I am not sure what her upbringing entailed, but I am willing to bet that it plays a BIG part in the type of guys that she ATTRACTS and is ATTRACTED to. At the end of the day, WE'VE GOT TO LOVE OURSELVES MORE!! We deserve to be treated like the QUEENS that we are! We also deserve to be with someone who will be fully COMMITTED to us. LOVE is not ABUSIVE! At some points during this interview it seemed as if Karrueche was making excuses for Chris (which is another thing that we as women often do). I truly hope that this experience has helped her to understand and know her WORTH....even if it is just a little more than she realized prior to this interview! 

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