2/9/2017 0 Comments
Welcome back to Sex and the City Thursdays The Carrie Diaries Edition!!!! In tonight's clip young Carrie finds out that the guy who she LIKES (Sebastian) spent time with Donna, one of her high school peers. Now of course Donna made it seem as though she and Sebastian's time spent together was WAY MORE THAN WHAT IT WAS!!! I remember going through this in high school and college!!! Now Sebastian was able to give clarity as to what really happened between he and Donna......which was pretty much NOTHING.
Most of us women can understand what Carrie experienced in this clip (especially when we were younger)....because a lot of times the guy who we liked was not going to volunteer information regarding how he might have felt for any other girls. I remember going through this very thing in college!!! There were a few guys who caught my eye. However, they caught the eyes of many other young ladies as well LOL!!! They were all young and were not ready to be committed to just one girl! Sad to say, I know people who STILL GO THROUGH THIS VERY THING IN ADULTHOOD!!! Just know that the RIGHT person will not PLAY GAMES with you!!!! I appreciated how Sebastian was able to open up to Carrie regarding his feelings for her and how when he is around her he does not feel the need to party....to fill that void so to speak!!!
What I do love about the budding relationship between Carrie and Sebastian is that the foundation is FRIENDSHIP! I truly feel like establishing FRIENDSHIP as the foundation can produce the makings of a great relationship!!! Why you ask....because you really get the opportunity to get to know one another without the facades. My husband and I started out being friendly co workers before we started dating. I was able to completely be MYSELF around him without feeling like I had to be a certain way to IMPRESS him and vice versa!!!!
What are your thoughts?