Welcome back to another segment of Sex and the City Thursdays!!! Today's clip is about a topic that perhaps is RELEVANT to a lot of us women!!!! Carrie decided to engage in individual therapy in order to get to the bottom as to why she continues to go through the relationship roller coaster with BIG. While engaging in a few therapy sessions, Carrie's therapist assesses that she PICKS THE WRONG MEN! Carrie clearly did not buy into this theory initially; until she had a LIGHT BULB moment after sleeping with one of her therapist's patients (who she met in the waiting area of her therapist's office) when he revealed why he is in therapy.
A lot of us women struggle with this same thing and are not always willing to take a LONG and CLOSE look at ourselves to try to figure out WHY we attract the types of men that we do! It is not always the "MEN" who are the problems ladies. A lot of times we are to blame as well!!! I spend a lot of time discussing these types of topics on this website in order to force us to LOOK AT OURSELVES and the IMPORTANCE of spending time really ASSESSING our behaviors (positive and negative) PRIOR to jumping into relationships! I believe that we all have BEHAVIORAL PATTERNS that we need to observe/break in order to become more emotionally and mentally healthy! If we do not LOVE OURSELVES enough......we will attract people who SHARE THAT SAME SENTIMENT!