So as I was getting ready for work the other day, I learned about the ALLEGED feud that Toya Wright and Tamar Braxton are currently going through with one another. They have been friends for years....to the point where Tamar Braxton defended Toya Wright and took on her BEEF with R&B singer K Michelle a few years ago. Toya Wright recently wrote a book entitled In My Own Words....My Real Reality; where she stated that she and Tamar are no longer friends due to her appearing as a guest on the day time talk show called The Real. We are all aware that Tamar is no longer a host on this talk show and that it did not seem to be an ALLEGED mutual split. Toya further states in her book that when Tamar was working on the show The Real, that she was never able to be a guest which she found to be a bit suspect. Tamar responded to this via an instagram post stating that she never kicks people out of her life but that they ended up walking themselves out of her life (I am paraphrasing). It is always UNFORTUNATE when a friendship BITES THE DUST.....especially with us women.
This whole story got me to thinking.....why is it that it is so easy for us WOMEN to subliminally throw darts and messages out there to one another as opposed to us having the UNCOMFORTABLE CONVERSATION and address whatever our concerns are with one another? Things might have been worked out already if these ladies said hey FRIEND, are you upset with me? Did I do something to offend you? Things seem to be strange and tense between us. Perhaps Toya should have forewarned Tamar that she was going to discuss her in the book!! Maybe Tamar should have expressed her concerns with Toya being a guest on The Real!! I think that this approach might have worked out more favorably for the both of them as opposed to airing their feelings out in books and social media.
What are your thoughts?