Welcome to the newest Complexed Simplicity initiative.....which is Being Mary Jane Tuesdays!!! This clip depicts a lot of what happened in season one between Mary Jane and Andre. Andre and Mary Jane met at the gym and had a whirlwind romance. However, Mary Jane did not realize that Andre was MARRIED as he was not honest and upfront about this MAJOR detail! I find that more women than not have experienced this very thing! In Mary Jane's case, she really STRUGGLED with doing what was right and ending the relationship because she had DEEP FEELINGS for him. What I always say is this......engaging in a consensual relationship with a married person will ONLY BACKFIRE on you in the end! As Mary Jane's brother expressed in this clip.....most men are not going to leave their wives for their mistress! Mary Jane fell into the trap that a lot of us women fall into....when we actually start to BELIEVE that dealing with a married man is going to have a HAPPY STORY BOOK ENDING! Let me tell you right now......IT NEVER HAS A HAPPY FAIRY TALE ENDING! Let us also remember that WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!!! We are ALL going to be held accountable for our actions in this life! We have to be READY FOR THE CONSEQUENCES for our decisions out here!!!
I know quite a few women who have KNOWINGLY messed with married men......and let me tell you....their endings did not result in a big house, with a white picket fence, dog, kids, and marriage. Let's NOT LOSE HOPE when it comes to LOVE!! We all deserve to be with someone who is not hinged in another relationship or marriage! We all deserve to be loved in an honest and authentic way! We all should also refrain from dating people who are in relationships or marriages....at the end of the day we would not appreciate being the wife or husband who is being cheated on!!!
What are your thoughts?